--丫丫有时会很委屈地对妈妈说，奶奶对我说不好的话（尽管奶奶已经是温和的奶奶了 ）今天，跑来说，“妈妈，奶奶伤了我的心了。“
－妈妈如果生气了，做一些很极端的动作，比如，丫丫在水龙头前玩了很久，妈妈过去，什么也不说，一下子很猛地把水龙头关掉。丫丫能够意识到妈妈生气了，她也会生气的。她不会和妈妈合作的。通常，如果妈妈给丫丫一点耐心，丫丫还是比较听话的。说白了，丫丫吃软不吃硬。
－妈妈有时会把自己的不愉快发泄给丫丫，是妈妈无理取闹。
－－今天是万圣节，孩子的节日，妈妈没有很好地陪丫丫玩，妈妈送丫丫到学校，丫丫要求妈妈留下，妈妈还是离开了。希望明年妈妈补上。
－－弟弟也长大了，弟弟会和姐姐一起玩很多游戏。姐弟俩大部分时候玩的非常开心。妈妈不可想象家里的一个孩子怎么玩。
-弟弟2岁两个月，妈妈带弟弟去买两样东西，所以没推车，结果看到合适的，有多买了一些。结完账后，妈妈必须两只手拎着袋子，妈妈对弟弟说，弟弟，牵着妈妈的衣角。弟弟努力去踩妈妈的脚，因为妈妈还在走，弟弟踩不到，所以干脆抱着妈妈的腿，踩到了妈妈的脚上。这个努力的过程中，妈妈不停地说，弟弟，牵着妈妈的衣角。当弟弟终于踩到妈妈的脚时妈妈也终于明白了。于是放下手里的东西，告诉弟弟怎样去牵妈妈的衣角。
this morning after got up, YY was a little bit slow. but she did pee and washed her hands herself in washroom. i did well until last minute when she was in the car but she wanted me to get one of her books from house. I said NO. she started crying and I yelled.
after yelling i was not happy as feeling uncomfortable and not in a good mood. i do not like this at all. I should not yell at all. i can explain why i could not get the book for her at a normal voice.
Do not complain Grandma anymore. I am the mom and if i have time i would like to give more time to by kids. stay with YY and get her learn to get dressed herself. Then I take her to school. I will keep doing this until i really can't do it. i can leave DD to Grandma for this moment.
Never yell at YY again, otherwise i will lose YY.
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